Throughout the 16 years i have lived, I have friends constantly leaving and entering my life. Watching my own friends leave is one of the toughest things, but, it made me realise who my true friends were.
Not long ago, I had a huge quarrel with a close friend of mine. We used to be really close and did many things together. We celebrated birthdays for each other, hung out together, studied together and went through thick and thin together. However, once she had a boyfriend, we started distancing a lot. The fact that she had a boyfriend was something i felt really happy for her. But as time passed, she started prioritizing him over me and even talked behind my back. That was when everything changed. We started to quarrel a lot, not talk to each other and this eventually led to the end of us being close friends. Up till today, i'm still really upset of what happened to us. But at the very least, I realised that perhaps, we are better off being acquaintances since she kept hurting me through her actions.
To me, true friends are always by your side no matter what happens instead of turning to you only when they have no one to turn to and do all sorts of stuff with you. (Proper stuff i meant😊) My friend (in the story) and I had known each other for around three years and I thought that our friendship would last really long. But the truth is, the amount of time you have known someone for, is not enough to justify if he or she, is a true friend. (And people do change)
I would definitely encourage everyone to cherish all the moments you have with your friends and loved ones so that there will be no regrets. Also, think twice or thrice before making a decision when it comes to handling friendship problems.
Things you might want to think of when you face any friendship problems:
💫Are both parties trying their best to fix the friendship problem?
💫Is it the first time the other party has hurt you?
💫Is the other party worth getting back?
(If you have constantly been hurt by the same person up till a great extend, perhaps its better off not being friends.)
The reason I am sharing this story is because, many of us probably face friendship problems too, and I would like to thank those who stayed by me throughout these years. Life would not have been easy and fun without you all💕💫🌱
(There are a few more friends and classmates but i decided just to post a few photos😊😊)
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🌱Rae🌱 |
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💫Rupa💫 |
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💖Umairah💖 |
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💕💕San san, Min er, Rae💕💕 |
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✌Yu chun✌ |
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😽Maisarah and Amanda😽 |
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😇Kelly and Tess😇 |
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💫Nora💫 |
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🐶Stamford🐶 |
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🐶Bryan🐶 |
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🐶Jacob🐶 |
-Sherry:)🌱😽